I don't have the first idea if they were raised or not. It was not something she ever brought up in conversation. and it wouldn't have been something I would have bothered asking about. I just thought it made her eyes very unique and cool. btw--she is many years older than you and still lives
QUIT doing the reactive stuff. Yes I know you know
. but if you don't put your knowing
to good use, if you say I know
then do the same things over again, then you are going to believe you are circling the drain your whole life. I mean if that is the kinda life you want, then, well.... However, if you want a better life than that, stop using the guns to shoot yourself in the foot.
Okay stepping off of my soapbox,
good luck and be well.