Thank you for replying, I have since calmed down and tried to be more logical with my thinking. Mollyfin I understand what you are saying and I feel guilty enough about the impact my HA may have on my children, we all have control over our actions and are able to exercise it and yet so many of us lose entire days Googling, worrying, testing and checking. This is the first time my worries have become about one of my kids and I feel bad enough about it. I have stopped checking her and agree I don't want this to pass on, although I found the way in which you expressed yourself a little harsh. If we could all 'just stop' this site wouldn't exist.