Ok so my 17 year old sister has a 20 year old boyfriend who she's been with for over a year. Every single person in our entire family who has ever met him, hates him. He is very rude, sarcastic and a huge egomaniac. He is a liar, and also does very dramatic things to ensure he is the center of attention. He is childish, and does things that are so annoying and repetitive to my sister, that I would consider it abuse. I've tried talking to my sister about how we are concerned about their relationship, but she wants nothing to do with it. He spends the night with her Thursday night through Tuesday day, every week and my everyone is stressed from seeing him that frequently. She thinks we are all judgemental and says she loves him a lot. I'm gonna list different situations that have happened, what do you think about him?
Randomly came up to me while I visited family at the campground and told me he can beat my husband up, and that my husband is nothing but skin and bones and he can take him on
Told my mom he buys my sister gifts so she "does what he wants"
Threatens ***** if he has no ride and my sister will not pick him up
Has random temper tantrums, kicks things and screams
Constantly is pestering my sister. Mimics her, dumps water on her face and is just generally annoying pretty much all the time.
Eats all of my parents food, also helps himself to my grandmas fridge when they go over there, even after being talked to about it
Was seen by my coworker at a his highschool he already graduated from, talking to a bunch of girls. Told my sister and she said he denied he was there, and she believed him
She used to constantly cry to me how she caught him flirting with, or texting other girls
Throws a fit every time my sister wants to get off the phone with him. Ends up being a half hour deal with her trying to convince him she's actually busy and that it's not cause she doesn't care about him anymore
My grandma doesn't want him in her house anymore, relatives don't want him at family parties and its getting stressful. I can't get through to my sister and they even have promise rings. I'm scared they are going to get married and she will get hurt. I just don't know what to do. Everyone is stressed, she is being strung around by him and everyone is concerned. Ok rant over