I got the call and it is not melanoma! It is severe atypia. I have to have it removed and be monitored every 3 months.
Thank you Brick5711, greend, and mollyfin for getting me through these past few days.
I have to decide whether to go to a plastic surgeon or have the dermatologist remove it. Then, that will go to pathology and I will wait on that.
This experience has made me realize that I have to try to work on my anxiety. I was 100% convinced I had advanced melanoma. I do not want to put myself through this every 3 months.
(If anyone happens to read this thread who is going through the same thing, please keep in mind that if something goes to a second pathologist and needs a stain test, it does not definitely mean something bad.)