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Offline Aimee1875

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Is it just me??
« on: March 25, 2014, 02:56:46 PM »
Is it just me who feels like they can never live a happy life without worrying? I don't think in about 4 months I haven't been worrying about something!!! How hard can it be to just get on with everything and feel fine  ::)
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #1 on: March 25, 2014, 03:03:20 PM »
I can't do it either. I feel as if I'm in a fairground on one of them whacka games. No sooner does one problem or worry alleviates another comes up to replace it :( so unfair.
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #2 on: March 25, 2014, 03:17:47 PM »
Yep definitely. As soon as you start to feel like maybe,just maybe,things are starting to turn around and you feel back on track..boom. It's just a never ending cycle that's ruining my life!!
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #3 on: March 25, 2014, 03:21:02 PM »
Yep! Only yesterday I thought "wow this is the first time I'm thinking I might be dying today!" But u haven't stopped thinking about it today! Making me feel sick and achy and like there's no point in trying :(
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #4 on: March 25, 2014, 03:23:18 PM »
It really really gets you down that's the worst about it. My heads messed up all the time it's mental :(
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2014, 05:22:23 PM »
I've wasted so much of my life worrying.  I really wish I could get it back, but I totally agree.  I find that most people don't worry about stuff that I do and it makes me even feel more like a freak. 

The thing is, I actually have something to worry about now and I'm not obsessing or worrying like I do when I have nothing to worry about.  Its times like this that make me look back and say, man, look at all the great times I missed when it was nothing and I was healthy. 

I am not "unhealthy" now, per se, but I do have a condition and facing some pretty invasive tests.  I'm anxious, yes, but not obsessively worried, missing work to stay in bed, going nuts, worried. 
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2014, 05:44:44 PM »
Yeah I agree. These last few months have made me think 'why am I worrying so much?' And I know I'm just being silly but I can't help it!! I've even got to the point when I think the doctor has maybe missed something and that there still might be something wrong with me. All that I want is to stop this persistent worrying once and for all.
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #7 on: March 25, 2014, 05:50:43 PM »
Unfortunately nobody can give us a 100% dead cert that were healthy and are going to be for the next 'x' amount of years. We need to just trust our doctors and...live. I really don't wanna wake up one day, old and less fit and realise I wasted most of my life worrying about illness. Even if I am sick I'm not going to wish I spent the last 2 years worrying obsessively like I am. I need to get out of this horrendous cycle I'm trapped in :(
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Re: Is it just me??
« Reply #8 on: March 25, 2014, 06:06:26 PM »
Me too. Worrying isn't getting anyone anywhere but unfortunately that's the way things are. It frustrates me so much :fragend005:
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