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shad, I agree with summersun. Stop comparing yourself to others. You not only made it through law school, which is a huge accomplishment that u should be proud of, but you also had a scholarship, which tells me you were a hard worker even before law school. Be happy that your gf was lucky enough to get a job that pays well. Don't give up. This job market is incredibly difficult right now, but you'll find something. Don't get discouraged. Keep looking, and as summersun said, broaden your horizons a little......look a little further out of town (maybe relocating would actually be good for you), or look a little outside your field of expertise.
Good luck to you, and again, welcome to AZ.