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Re: Mom is trying to scare me about breast cancer.. its working.
« Reply #15 on: September 04, 2014, 01:13:14 AM »
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Re: Mom is trying to scare me about breast cancer.. its working.
« Reply #16 on: September 04, 2014, 12:37:47 PM »
I won't really discuss the breast CA issue as you have answered your own question.  But, I will ask you what keeps you involved in toxic relationships?  I realize there are two sides to every story...but if your interactions with your mother are the way you say...they are bordering on abusive.  Do you live at home?  If not, then what keeps you interacting with her?  Why call?  Why see her?  Just because someone is blood doesn't give them the right to be abusive.  Set healthy boundaries.  If you are financially dependent upon your mother, find a way to make yourself financially independent and set healthy boundaries.  You can set the rules of interaction and when she steps across the line, there is nothing saying you have to speak with her.  Remove yourself from the situation.  Surround yourself with people who love and support you.  We teach people how to treat us.
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Re: Mom is trying to scare me about breast cancer.. its working.
« Reply #17 on: September 04, 2014, 08:58:43 PM »
Thanks Shawn I agree. I need to follow through.
Well I got my ultrasound referral today. Doc wasn't worried (I had to get a referral Cuz I moved to a diff city). He said in general my breast are kinda not fully smooth but lots of woman are like that and my docs always said that ever since I found the lump. So i m realizing the odds are aatronomoical for it to be cancer because in young, had an ultrasound 6 months and every 6 months before that since I was 15 that showed no change, my surgeon who is well known and actually dealt with one of the only cases of childhood breast cancer )8 years old), so did my surgeon and another doctor as well. I kinda just wanna get this sucker out. 
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