Sometimes people tell us things to scare us or to make us change our behavior the way they think it should be. Try not to let those comments get to you. They are not coming from your doctor and it doesn't mean it is true. Let the doctor be the guide and tell you what is going on. The what if's and worries aren't going to do you any good right now. Hopefully your next appointment will give you some answers and then you can work the problem from there. Good luck.