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Offline Nichlas224

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Re: This is bad....
« Reply #10 on: May 31, 2014, 11:38:44 AM »
I think ill wait to look for any threatments untill i actually know whats going on. This could also just be another Health Anxiety Problem that has returned since i have been through almost every physical and mental disease you could imagin, you can take a look at a few post that i have made : (http://www.anxietyzone.com/index.php/topic,88878.msg496070.html#msg496070) (http://www.anxietyzone.com/index.php/topic,88925.msg496303.html#msg496303)

I wouldn really say my father is selfish, since the reason i would be home nearly every night was cause he worked night shift, we did have fun and have good days aswell but certenly also been fighting alot :)

Good to be told it doesnt sound like being sociopathic but the thought that there still could be some ASPD still bugs me, although ive read that if i was sociopath or milder form of ASPD i wouldn really question it nor be worried about it but here i am :) I do get alot of care, love and attention from one whos been through this with me for nearly 7 months and maybe i just find the symptoms fitting since Anxiety/OCD and possible Depression does have ALOT of symptoms involved, even though looking back at my past i have 9/10 criteria for ASPD...

I could go for a walk but the fear of raising my pulse to high is still there and im pretty sure none of whos home would wanne go haha, also i have lost intrest and almost all motivation to do anything at all really. :)
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Re: This is bad....
« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2014, 12:11:42 PM »
Checked out your posts. What is going on is probably a little bit of everything and the best person to help is really you yourself. Father is hard working and the two of you want to get along. You do have someone by your side, lucky you. It is not hard to have ASPD if we expect anything from others. We can't control them, but can control ourselves.

We have ourself, we have our mind, our interests and activities, school, work, hobbies. Technology is too much with us and that is why a simple walk (or any exercise) can do us good. We reconnect with ourself, with nature, revive our spirit. Walking never hurts anything. That is where, in fact, I am off to.
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Re: This is bad....
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2014, 12:22:41 PM »
Thanks for your replys Tinam, and i hope its all better soon.

Enjoy your walk :)
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« Reply #13 on: May 31, 2014, 02:02:23 PM »
I'm glad you and tinam have been able to have good dialogue about this. I'd just like to reiterate that if you truly WERE a psychopath or sociopath, you WOULD NOT be concerned about being so. I used to be in a relationship with a sociopath, and trust me, it never occurred to him that anything about his behavior was out of the ordinary.
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In case anyone is still confused:  googling your symptoms will cause you to remain in a state of extreme anxiety. Stepping away from the internet is the first step toward lasting peace.

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Re: This is bad....
« Reply #14 on: May 31, 2014, 02:32:02 PM »
Well, the reason i belived i was this time was that "Conduct Disorder" Often is just a precurser to ASPD And since i got My diagnose With conduct disorder i was worried. But after thinking a bit, I wouldn worry if i was or not, i wouldn feel love for my girfriend, i wouldn feel guilt or anything like that. I had a nice talk to my mother aswell and The Conduct Disorder Part in my adhd might come from the actually ADHD. Just as a serve case of ADHD :)) But thanks for all the replies and may all have a great day :)

And im happy that you got out of that relationship vardnas, im sure you wont fall for that again! :)
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