Hi there. I really need some input. My HA is mostly under control - meaning I don't have it daily, but I still do get it maybe weekly, usually no panic, but mostly appears as self-checking - self-checking usually myself but sometimes my kids. (I have a 5 and 3 year old). As my main HA issue is cancer, the self-checking is usually lump or gland or asymmetry related. The problem is, my youngest is starting to exhibit the early stages of this. Being concerned about boo-boo's. Asking "what is this?" on his skin, etc. I really do NOT want to pass this on to him. If I am concerned about myself, or self-checking, I try not to do it in front of my kids. I struggle hard not to check my kids - to the point where if I am really mentally weak, I don't even want to bathe them! (have my husband do that!) Because I am afraid I will "see" something. Now, as I said, this is not an every single day thing, but it is happening and looks like it is influencing my youngest. I need some advice please! I don't wish HA on anyone and really don't want him to get it from watching me, but I really struggle with the self-checking. Any advice on how to keep this away from the kids??? Thank you so much.