Hi Fillyy... Welcome to Anxiety Zone! My name is Chuck, and I am one of the Global Moderators here on the site
You are now a member of our community, where you will find support and advice from other members in similar situations. It's always nice to find someone else who understands, and to know you're not alone.
We have sections in the forum that address specific concerns, so feel free to post or start a new topic in the section that best fits your situation. Feel free to explore the rest of the forum. You may find the other topics helpful, and you may be able to offer advice or support to someone else.
We also have a chat room for members over the age of 18. Once you have made ten meaningful posts, you will be allowed access to the chat room.
Now Fillyy, my #1 question for you is have you addressed your health anxiety? There is a good chance that if you weren't worried and anxious about the lump on the roof of your mouth, you would find something else to direct your concerns. There is certainly nothing wrong with seeing a physician when one is concerned about a physical problem, and even getting a second opinion is a great idea, but you should also consider investing as much time towards your mental health, as well. I would suggest that you do see another doctor for a second opinion, and also consider seeing a psychiatrist to discuss your worries, concerns, and anxiety.
I see both a psychiatrist and a psychologist, and both of them have helped me tremendously.
Again, welcome to Anxiety Zone, Fillyy. The very besy to you!... Chuck