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Offline adalie56

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Drinking has caused lack of trust
« on: March 28, 2014, 06:25:55 AM »
My drinking and lying/hiding it has created a complete collapse of trust in my relationship with my wife.  She has taken all my credit/debit cards and hides the keys when I am home.  This is a result of me leaving the house at odd times to buy liquor.  She also hides her purse and $$$.  has anyone else experienced this lack of trust with a spouse?  It is difficult for me to not have any control...Advice??
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Re: Drinking has caused lack of trust
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2014, 03:24:34 PM »
That is part of alcoholism.  We lose the trust of those closest to us.  We lie, hide and deceive everyone especially ourselves.  Drinking despite adverse consequences is a big red flag that it may be time to seek some help.  Sounds like you both need a good program of recovery.
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