Ok, being somewhat new to having anxiety, well, to the point that it affects my life, I wasn't totally sure how to handle it as far as dating goes. I've always dated on and off, and had a few good long term relationships. I've learned through trial and error that it's far better to be honest and up front about issues before getting 'serious', as those problems always seem to rear their ugly head at the worst moment.
So, the last few girls I've talked to, I've been up front with the whole anxiety issue. It seems rational, as it's a problem they'd have to face in time. I don't go into detail unless they ask, but inform them that my anxiety doesn't require medication, just self control. You can probably guess this hasn't exactly done my dating life any good, otherwise I wouldn't be posting. So, when you're talking to someone, do you tell them about your anxiety? When and how do you tell them?
Fyi, I don't beat myself up over the ones that lose interest when I bring up my anxiety, I just file it under the "wasn't mean to be" category and move on.