:action-smiley-065:ok,so ill start with the scariest,your mom and lymphoma. Yes, the possibilityof the big C is so damn scary especially involving a loved one. But,the good thing is,even if she has lymphoma a dr told me once that if he got to choose a cancer to have,itd be lymphoma. And that even in its later stages is very treatable and curable.try to be positive,i know its hard tho. i was referred to an onc before for the possibility of cancer in my jaw. I didn't end up having it. The key to cancer is detecting it,she's in the right place:-) . But more Than likely she doesnt have it,theyre probably just being cautious. That's better than the whole "watch and wait"scenario.sounds like she has a great doc:-) .as far as your hubby and his colds,it could be partially due to allergies. Pneumoniais much worse symptoms and has a fever. Our bodies are pretty resilient even if he ended up with it,dying from it is pretty rare(even tho the media says otherwise)ive had it before and so hasmy son. He was 3.my grandpa also had it and is 89 and diabetic. Pneumonia is serious,but is usually found and treated before it gets scary. I hope all of you start feeling better soon ill have you in my prayers babe!