Hello, I'm new here and could really use some advice. I was recently diagnosed with GAD and have been off work trying to get back on track and learn how to live my life with anxiety.
I have been with my bf for almost a year. I think things have always been a bit rocky because he has, what I'm sure is safe to call, "severe" ADD. He was not taking his meds for the first few months of dating which I didn't know about and his behaviour definitely made me anxious. Now that he takes his meds its not as bad but I am very anxious " about us" and break up with him in my mind all the time. I have ongoing doubts that can be triggered by insignificant things, like me not finding his jokes funny, which leads to me to think are we compatible. We have communication issues - a man of few words. This also makes me think, why am I still with him. There are many other things I can list but my concern here is, is this normal anxiety behaviour or actual relationship doubts.
My biggest fear is breaking up with him because of MY anxiety and not OUR issues.
Thank you in advance for your feedback.