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Offline lofwyr

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Erectile Dysfunction (question for guys)
« on: February 04, 2014, 07:26:48 PM »
It is no secret anxiety and ED go hand in hand, and until recently I had been managing well with viagra and then cialis. Well, one day cialis didn't work, or at least didn't work upto its usual standards. I was crushed, and now it is just this vicious loop of the drug not working because my mind will not let it.

It should be said that I have been screened for medical causes and came back clean, so this is all in my head. I just cannot break the loop that causes the failure. I am sick at not being able to keep my wife happy in bed, though she has been super understanding and very kind, I just have this nagging guilt.

So, I will try viagra one more time, it worked like a charm before and I see no reason to think it wont again. It is like a bull dozer while cialis was like a sports car. But my question is for the guys out there who maybe have dealt with this, did you overcome anxiety based ED? And if so, how? I could use some help.

Sorry if this is posted in a bad place, feel free to move it to the correct place Mods.

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Re: Erectile Dysfunction (question for guys)
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2014, 07:58:34 AM »
I know its easier to say than to do but try and relax - the stress of it won't help.
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Re: Erectile Dysfunction (question for guys)
« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2014, 08:05:08 AM »
When I was a young man of 20 or 21, I remember having some difficulty with a new girl friend as I was very nervous.
Without going into too much detail, she tried everything imaginable to get me rolling, but with no luck. Not too soon afterwards
in the next week or two, my nerves became better and I began to roll right along. So, if you are nervous, that can impact
your performance. Eventually things will kick in.
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