Hi all :)
I've been getting therapy for several months, and I've improved a lot, but I still get frightening and sometimes extremely inconvenient episodes.
However, I'm not as big of a case as some people. I don't have full on panic attacks, and I don't feel like I'm going to die.
My anxiety tends to be set off after eating or drinking. My safety behaviour involves lying down or relaxing in a laid back position of some kind. So my safety zones are anywhere where I feel that I can adopt these positions within a certain amount of time. For example, the pub that is 10 minutes down the road would be within a safety zone since I can rush home and lay down. But it doesn't have to be my home, just anywhere I can relax and adopt any position that I choose.
But I recognise that this is an unhelpful safety behaviour and I want to overcome the feeling that 'I have to lie down'. I have achieved this in some situations, usually ones where I was able to relax and move my body, even if I wasn't able to lay back. But I still have difficulty controlling my panic/anxiety when I am in less flexible situations, say if I'm out on a long walk, or in a social situation where I cannot leave or step away for long.
My therapist has started showing me ways to relax myself. I'm starting to use mindfulness, and trying not to take my thoughts too seriously, so they don't spiral out of control.
I'd appreciate any ideas or reports of similar situations people may have. Thank you! :D