a question

[duncil]

ok, Im 42 been divorced a few months, seperated 5 years, ive had a few relationships, alot of stupid online ones, but wells im bipolar, ocd, i suffer anxiety, and other issues, for the life of me i cant find a girl like me in my area, i like issues in others, i trully like the rush, i need a riuh in my life for me to function well, for me i like to hold togther a partners world, any issues are cool with me, but where can i honetly meet somneone with mega issues like me, i realy dont connect with so called normals


                                                        thanks for listening

[itsmeesindee]

You will probably meet someone when youa re not looking so hard.  See if there are any groups with similar issues to you in your area.  Do you see a therapist?  Strange question I know, but I am thinking that if you are seeing one they can help you learn more about yourself and therefore find someone who would be good for you.

Cin

[duncil]

i stopped seeing mine, not sure if i want another, not sure if they can help me anymore, so much of my healing im learning, has to come from me, and yes, i have been looking to hard hehehehe, im gonna cool it, and then see, but i did think about some support groups in the area, im gonna look into that



                                                    thanks!!!!!

[Puller]

I met my wife 6 months after I had stopped looking and trying so hard. As far as issues like yours effecting a relationship, I suppose it is possible but I would certainly give it a number of dates before you tell her and go into it slow not all of it in one night. As the Cin said...talk to you doc for advice.

[mommy_2_4_babies]

Everything happens for a reason when it is ur turn 2 find love it will b right in front of u

[duncil]

i just hate waiting, grrrrrrrrrr, i want it all, and i want it now, but.......hehehe it dont work like that, as you said, when its to be... it will be

[mommy_2_4_babies]

I know what u mean but good things come to those who wait

[mike44132]

I love the use of the word ‘normal’s’ lol I find myself using it all the time …but the truth is there is no such thing as ‘normal’ everyone has their own unique flaw and love is to understand and exept this having anxiety and or agoraphobia is truly hard to exept and next to impossible to get others to understand but there is hope just be yourself and be upfront about any issues and in that you will find what you are looking for.

[duncil]

good things come to those who wait...didnt hannibal lector say that in silence of the lambs heheheheh



yea we all have our own issues, true, and is anyone out there normal? hmmmm maybeee not, lets say i like to be around terminal crazies then, but then i get burned out, but i live for the rush, i guess its the bipolar talking, i guess when the time is right, it will happen.