I haven't been to the gyn in almost 3 1/2 years after having my son and I'm freaking out. I started having some lower right side dull pains that lasted a few seconds. Now I am getting them on both sides, front and back accompanied by stomach cramps occasionally. Nothing has been terribly painful, just enough to freak me out. I had a mammogram last year but they never get easier. I am sure the stomach thing is some kind of cancer ovarian, liver, pancreatic..., you name it. I am 37. I do have the thought that the side pains might possibly be from lifting my son who is 38lbs. They seem to be worse with more activity. My husband is not helpful at all and I would dread any kind of surgery because I have no one at all to help with my 3 year old son. Its really upsetting.