I feel like there is no hope for me anymore. I'm a 20 year old male, and still a virgin. I have had only 2 serious girlfriends in the past, but other passing flings if you call it too. And my 2 serious girlfriends both said they would actually have sex with me. I eventually asked my first girlfriend (when I was 15) if she would ever have sex with me. She said absolutely. Unfortunately we broke up before we had the chance to. My second girlfriend asked me when we first started going out if we could try it (I was 16 at the time). Eventually we just went our separate ways and never tried it. But about 7 months ago, my second girlfriend and I started talking again and kind of caught up with each other. Then the topic of sex came up again, and she asked if I wanted her to come over to "slip it in." I ended up not texting her back as I was actually busy that day. We haven't really talked to each other since then.
Now I feel like I will never get the chance to, because every other girl that I try and date says that I'm a great FRIEND, and nothing more. Which frustrates me terribly. I'm not ugly, but I'm not smoking hot. I just wish that a girl would actually find me attractive. My 2 serious girlfriends liked me for me. I was a gentleman, and I treated them great. Now, if I do that, the girl just thinks of me as a friend and they go off and sleep with the next hot guy. I seriously think that the saying "nice guys finish last" is a true statement. I don't see the point in trying ever again. I think I'll be the real 40 year old virgin in 2 decades time.
I don't know why I'm letting this get to me...my anxiety is taking a toll on my well being because of this. I guess I have a fear of not being able to perform well. And if that happens then the girl will end up not wanting to see me again. :/
(Not sure if this is in the right section, sorry if it isn't).