I know it has been a while since you posted, but I have been through this with men so many times, and I know it never really goes away. I agree with Cuchulan, that porn is something you are into, or your are not. I am not. I have been upfront with every man I have ever been into. I have always said if you are are into it, cool. We do not need to be in an intimate relationship! I found, for me, it isn't a jealousy issue, as much as it is a respect issue. I just don't like how it makes us view people as objects. That's me. I also do not think if someone is into to it they are scumbags. They are just not the person for me. Be true to yourself. If this guy does not have the mutual respect required in a relationship now, run- time does not magically change that for the better.