Hi everyone. :)

[JessicaDumont]

Hi. :) My name is Jessica, I just joined today and am happy to have found a site like this. A little bit about me:

I am 21 years old and have had anxiety for the last almost 5 years. What started all of it was, when I found my boyfriend cheating. It was my first real love, so it was a huge deal to me. The worst part was, is that he did it while I had to go visit my grandma in a different state because she had a stroke and went into a comma.
My next serious relationship, the guy started cheating 9 months into it.
To sum it all up, every guy I've been with before my current husband, has cheated on me, and in the worst ways possible.

Going through all the cheating, made my anxiety and insecurity worse every time. Even writing this and thinking about it gets me shaken up a little bit.

But that's why I am here, for advice and to be around people that kind of understand what I'm going through. And hopefully I can end up helping someone else also. :)

[Cuchculan]

Welcome to the forum. Good to have you as a member. Here you are with like minded people. People who understand. As we all suffer from something or other. So feel free to ask any questions. Our members are always willing to help others out. Good chatroom too. 3 posts to enter the room.

Find the correct section of the forum that suits your condition and create a new topic on it. This is just a welcome section. Never really get the same amount of help in this section as you would on the other sections of the forums. So whatever one suits the questions you are asking. Get much better answers.
All users of the chatroom must be 18 years old or over. The room is off limits to anybody under the age of 18.

[sue]

Hi Jessica

Im a 27year old female and also suffer with anxiety that breeds alot of insecurity. I am currently seeing a counselor who helps me deal with it. If you would like to chat i can pass on some of the things i found to be helpful. Mostly, try to believe in your heart that you are worthy of real and honest love, and dont tell yourself that they cheated because of you. Its their own devices that set them on the path of betrayel. Be good to yourself, kind to yourself and believe in yourself.

Sue