Getting over her.

[For_the_horde]

Long story short, A girl left me, she was one of the main supports in my life. she was really caring and was able to talk me out of doing some really dangerous, reckless things. also helped me with my drinking problem, now I don't have that type of support cause, you know. she left.

Anyone else feeling my pain?, what are you doing to get over him/her cause I sure am having a tough time.

(I saw her at one of my appointments, we just stopped and looked at each other, she gave me a really pained look then quickly walked away......shes looking great.)

[lanayru]

Throw out anything(and everything) that reminds you of her (clothes, toys, etc.), remove her from any contacts you have, avoid going on 0409( and other social websites like it) to avoid being reminded of her, and try going out with other people you love (family/friends).

Break-ups aren't easy to get over and you most likely won't get over it the week after.

Take it slow, cry if you have to, but remember that even though she is gone you are still you and you can always find someone who will support you
even more than she ever did.

try watching movies or going out with buddies. This usually helps ease the pain of losing someone you cared about.

[For_the_horde]

thank you. It's the memories that are gonna be tough to get through. Her voice and laugh especially.

[Twobittehz]

Every cloud has a silver lining. I was always taught that people come in and out of your life like seasons. People give and they take. In your case she gave you a new outlook on life. I suggest you use it. It takes time but you have to stop thinking about her. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Find creative ways to distract your thoughts about her like writing poetry or cooking or something guys do hehe 

I felt your pain really recently. One day I woke up and I said no more. I've been fine ever since. It's hard but you can do it.

Good luck!

[For_the_horde]

That's really smart. She did help me through a really really dark time. So her "season" was full of love and healing. Maybe it was best we went our separate ways, who knows?.