Littlebird I am with you. I am obsessed with my girls every pain and ache. And I always think the worst. I am so relieved when they are home from going on a trip or just simply going into town. I have gotten so bad I am now on meds. It helps but I hate meds so much I feel so drugged out. But I have to take them. I know I cannot live anymore of my life in HA misery.