arggument with my 7 month old boyfriend

[mznewbie]

i had an aggrument with my 7 mth old boyfriend we got together in June 23 2012 and he moved in with me one month later with his 6 yrs old son.I was okay and happy because I havent been with someone for 3 years and I accidently got into his 0409 by mistake and notice a recent contact with a girls name on it and it said hit me up heres my new number.So long story short I got mad and kinda yelled at him and said what was up with him talking with girls and giving his number out to females and then he showed me that it was his guyfriend not a girl and after I took the initiative an apologized to him but before then when I was mad at him he called me stupid and said I was dumb and I was like my dad rude and with an attidude and I have never called him names nor have compared him to someone else whos is a bad person.After I said that I said okay this "stupid 0104 will shut up now I am sorry " and he replied yes please.Should I be mad because he didn't apologize to me and Ifor saying that to me because I did say sorry and he I did?

[Maisie77]

I personally consider what your boyfriend said to you to be verbal abuse. I understand he was upset because you checked his email, but the response to call you dumb and stupid like your father is drastic.  I wouldn't put up with ANYONE talking to me that way.

[tinam7]

When I was young we did not live together first. This is where I think things have improved even if I'm otherwise skeptical sometimes.

Living together gives people an opportunity to know each other much better before they get into major commitments. I'd consider what you describe as red warning signs and maybe ask him to move out.