I can so relate to this topic and at least give my input..yay huh!! lol
I was so bullied in school and at home so my self esteem was always bad and I hated going to school I hated going home but I had to do both. I was called so many names and believed them,well I never had any boyfriends until my senior year of Highschool and got pregnant by him and we married ,I did have the baby the next year so I did graduate which I am so glad...anyways that ended in divorce I felt he never loved me and was just stuck because we had a son so I ended it... I started working and dating and thought ok I am not so bad anymore but man did men make me feel bad about myself...so I met a man got married again well he was Charles Mansons twin!!!
He beat me and belittled me and was just horrible so I once again after awhile moved out leaving everything except my son,started over.. I felt like dirt again.
I met my 3rd hubby where I worked and had many guys wanna mess around they did not wanna date me or anything ..so I met my hubby we dated for 4 years and have been married since 1998 ....and after all these years Guys still think I am pretty however I do not..so it is within us to find peace and love and to be HONEST NOT GIVE A FLYIN TURD WHAT OTHERS THINK!!
True!! People are gonna always judge and there are always gossping women in circles and men too.. You walk with you head up and have self confidence it makes you bigger and beautiful then any of them!
Face it head on with a smile,for some reason people hate when you smile at them because they are miserable ..do not let negative people define you.
If they stare then stare back and say Well Hello
How are you? I do it lol.
Take care and good Luck to you all!!