Me before taking meds.

Me after: :love:
It might take time (it took me years) to figure out with your doctor what the best combo/drug is for you. Yes, anxiety can be calmed with drugs. It is not behavioral it is chemical. I hate fighting about this statement, so if anyone feels otherwise, I probably won't respond. Just to say it again. Some anxiety is normal, everyone has anxiety. If you didn't have it at all, you would be the most laid back person in the history of time. Anxiety to the point of irrationality is not normal, it is a chemical imbalace caused by a trigger...or not caused by a trigger, simply an imbalance (my psychiatrist claims that 99% of all cases involve a trigger). The drugs change the chemical balance in your brain, to ease your anxiety. Since depression and anxiety are (for some odd reason) 'amped up' by the same chemicals in the brain, anti-depressants can be valuable for anxiety. Let me go through my drug history.
First time it was decided I needed meds I was given Paxil, which made me insanely angry and violent. That lasted about three days (no joke).
Next they tried Prozac which did...nothing. Nothing at all. Not a thing. It wasn't the right one, obviously.
Next I was given Amitryptyline. It gave me horrific night terrors. That lasted three days. I threw those away.
Next they tried Zoloft. Hey, that took the 'edge' off of some of my anxiety. So eventually we upped the dose, me and my doc. And up, and up, and up. Eventually I was taking 200mg a day, which at the time was the legal limit (I think it went up since then).
After four years, alas, the Zoloft stopped working. Not all at once, but little by little I was falling back into my old anxiety patterns. (It looks like a little checkerboard, with these cute little frills ar...nevemind that).
Then they tried Effexor XR and I took it, knowing that my doctor is not likely to give me something that will make me -worse-. It didn't seem to do much but after a few weeks I could tell it was working (I'm a pro at this point). Now I'm in the stage of up the dose, up the dose, up the dose. Right now I seem to have leveled off at 225mg of it. It's good. No nightmares, no bad side effects, nothing horrible. Much less anxiety.
I have carried a bottle of Clonazepam (Klonopin) in my pocket for four years (not the same bottle). I take it when the anxiety begins to defeat my Effexor and my relaxation techniques (and have no doubt, anxiety is one tough cookie, it can beat you when you least expect it to).
Overall, I feel ten times better than I did before I had any meds. Occasionally, I lapse into a period where my anxiety is horrific, but I think everyone has that. It's like a bad day. Everyone gets a bad day. You see what I'm saying?
My bottom line is that you shouldn't be scared to take something your doctor thinks will help you. The doctor knows far more about what's going on medically and medicinally than the average person (even us look-everything-up hypochondriacs). If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. If it has a side effect you don't like or can't deal with, then the doc will try something else.
And if anyone ever tells you that drugs for anxiety/depression/health anxiety is a 'joke' or 'a sham' or a 'cop out' or that you should just 'get over it' because 'it's just in your head', you give me their address so I can show them how good it is to have a painkilling drug when you really need one.