How to know if it's over

[lamy12]

I am struggling big time.  My husband is bipolar and things have been crazy at times.  I have basically disconnected from him on most levels....and find it hard to believe that I could ever have an intimate relationship with him again.  I have started counseling though and we have been to counseling together in past.  The problem I have is that we have a 2 1/2 year old and she adores her daddy.  To make matters more complicated.....we planned to move in a few years to another state where my entire family resides.  I am going....and if we separated.....my daughter would have minimal contact with her dad.  How do you make a choice like that?

I want a healthy relationship....I feel dissatified with my personal life and worry that it will always be this way.  Any advice. lamy

[itsmeesindee]

Lamy,

I think you both should give marriage counselling a try for the sake of your child.  This is a problem that you both need to come together to work on.  You seeng a counsler is great but you both need to go to  someone you are both comfortable with that specializes in marital relationships.


Cin

[lamy12]

We have been in counseling in past for several years.  He was very manipulative and never really wanted to work on issues that we had.  We are now both in individual counseling. lamy

[itsmeesindee]

Well you both being in counselling is positive. 

Cin