You are EXACTLY like my daughter! She was pretty good until she was about 18 or so. EVERYTHING is a sin. She is Catholic and stopped going to confession because she said, "What's the use, I'll walk out of confession and sin before I leave the church!" I can't offer you any advice on how to deal with it because obviously no matter what I say my daughter didn't change - but I only wanted to let you know that there are others out there. I KNOW what she goes through and I feel sorry for you that you are dealing with the same situation.