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Offline christina10778

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The church of Christ????
« on: August 01, 2010, 05:35:52 PM »
Is anyone here a member of the church of Christ? I really really want to talk to a member of the church about my Health Anxiety.  :traurig001:
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2010, 05:44:00 PM »
i have just joined this site. I was a member there. at least the 'international churches of christ' which i believe was an offshoot of the church of christ. I suspect i know why your here anyway and if i can help i will but have a look at this site. you may find what you are looking for. All best.... www.reveal.org
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #2 on: August 02, 2010, 10:46:39 PM »
Thank you very much for your reply :) However, I do know about the "International Church of Christ" and I do not condone their practices and/or beliefs. I was just looking for a member of a regular church of Christ congregation that I might be able to talk to. And I'm asking for a member of a church of Christ because I'm very conservative and strictly to the Bible and Gods will only in my beliefs.
And I have certain things that have made my HA worse.
My fear of not being good and obedient enough to get to heaven have caused about 80% of my fear of death. I'm getting better slowly but I would really like to talk to a fellow member that has gone through something like this before. Someone who would understand and not try to take me away from my conservativeness.
Again, thank you and its great that your spreading the info about the ICC and trying to help those who have been dooped by them.
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #3 on: August 07, 2010, 11:11:45 AM »
As a member of the Church of Cuch. Of which there is only 1 member, which is me, can I ask a serious question? Just from an outsiders view point looking in. Do you not think that your addiction with your religious beliefs has made you what you are today? It seems as if it has brought on your HA. Because you don't seem to see yourself as being worthy, based upon what is the belief of your religion. So you look at your life, still using your religion, and you find things in your life, that don't match up with the belief doctrine of your religion and you blame it all on them. Like Christ is punishing you. I won't claim to have much of a belief. If I have any it is in Buddhism. But I don't blame my ways of living and Buddhism for how I am. To me that would be too narrow minded and have me looking for answers only within my religion. To right the wrongs of my beliefs. When the real problem could be a lot worse and if left untreated could only get much worse. It is a therapist you should be seeking out. Not a fellow member of a church who would sell you what you want to hear. Because they would hold the same belief as you do. You need an outside opinion. Non religious one. Love my post or hate it I just had to get my 2 cents in. Not meaning to offend you in way shape or form at all.
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2010, 11:17:45 AM »
christina. i agree with previous post. If you dont believe your worthy then inevitably you will believe that everything that goes wrong is a punishment from god. i would not want you to change your beliefs, but there is no harm in examining them. if christianity is supposed to make you happy, satisfied how then do you feel unworthy. i'll wager that your comparing yourself with other people in your church or being told by them that your unworthy. remember god knows you, directly. you.  he does not know you through your church, there are no 'proxies servers' in a relationship with god

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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #5 on: August 09, 2010, 11:49:20 AM »
First of all....church of cuch....I like that one! lol.  Second, for her to want to talk to someone who shares her beliefs is not a bad thing. I am a  christian and also sought out a therapist who is also one ....I personally did not want anyone who may be coming from some sort of humanistic or "new agey" perspective (if you will). Third ....and I am simply venting here....I get so tired of conservative being a dirty word. Having said all that.....I agree wholeheartedly with oneworld....so many christians see every bad thing in their life as some sort of punishment from God and that is simply not true. You have worth because He created and loves you....plain and simple. I also struggle with feeling as if I am inadequate in God's eyes....when I do, I have to remember what the definition of grace is. I am not a member of the church of christ but my boss is. With all due respect to your beliefs, I have a serious disagreement with one of their main tenants which is that salvation is not secure....that one can loose their salvation. Im my opinion, this flys in the face of everything christ did on the cross for us and no wonder one would be in a constant state of wondering if they were "good enough" . I wonder if this is part of your particular problem with your worry about you not being good enough. I am not trying to make light of your beliefs. He is not looking for perfection, simply a willingness to strive to grow and learn and become closer to him. Just my two cents. Take care!!
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2010, 01:43:02 AM »

           First of all, thank you for your replies....all of you :) It really means alot to me. I listen to, ponder and respect all opinions :)
           Second, I don't believe that everything bad in my life is God punishing me. I have never been one of those people who believes that ever. I never blame God for anything bad that happens. I understand that He made us all free will agents and if He happens to allow something to happen to me because of the decisions I or someone else has made, than He has faith in me that I can get through that particular trial. And knowing that gives me more strength to get through it.
           Third, everything in my life matches up with my Christianity and beliefs. I know that it isn't all gonna be roses and rainbows and I know that I'm not perfect and never will be.
           Forth, I have never been told, by a fellow brother or sister in Christ, that I was unworthy or ever thought that any of them were any better than me. I know better than that and they have always been so humble, caring and awesome. We know that no one is perfect and that we all make mistakes. We also know that none of us is above another.....even the preacher is just a fellow brother in Christ, who happens to be good at bringing the message to us on Sundays, but he is no higher than anyone else.
 
           I just have my ups and downs, as does every Christian. And I happen to have issues that I don't want to go into detail about in a public post.
           I just moved and in my new congregation there are only 30-40 members and no one has HA. My old congregation had 350-400 members and still no one had HA. I just thought a good place to look would be an Anxiety forum.

           And in response to our beliefs on salvation. I'm listing some scripture that will hopefully help shed some light on the subject.

                        -All of 1 John 
                        -Galatians 5:4
                        - Hebrews 6:4-6
                        -Hebrews 10:26
                        - 2 Peter 2:20-22


 Once again, thank you very much for your replies :)
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #7 on: August 12, 2010, 10:36:27 PM »
Hey christina. Maybe seeing a christian counselor would good for you? You keep your conservativeness! Don't you ever change that! Don't ever change your beliefs or second guess yourself or creator. I think maybe a counselor will help because you said you do not want to go publicly. God bless and take care
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #8 on: August 19, 2010, 12:09:14 PM »
I started a thread in the LOUNGE for all Christians to have an open Thread to discuss their beliefs with other christians!!

Join me through this journey!
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #9 on: August 19, 2010, 07:49:27 PM »

           First of all, thank you for your replies....all of you :) It really means alot to me. I listen to, ponder and respect all opinions :)
           Second, I don't believe that everything bad in my life is God punishing me. I have never been one of those people who believes that ever. I never blame God for anything bad that happens. I understand that He made us all free will agents and if He happens to allow something to happen to me because of the decisions I or someone else has made, than He has faith in me that I can get through that particular trial. And knowing that gives me more strength to get through it.
           Third, everything in my life matches up with my Christianity and beliefs. I know that it isn't all gonna be roses and rainbows and I know that I'm not perfect and never will be.
           Forth, I have never been told, by a fellow brother or sister in Christ, that I was unworthy or ever thought that any of them were any better than me. I know better than that and they have always been so humble, caring and awesome. We know that no one is perfect and that we all make mistakes. We also know that none of us is above another.....even the preacher is just a fellow brother in Christ, who happens to be good at bringing the message to us on Sundays, but he is no higher than anyone else.
 
           I just have my ups and downs, as does every Christian. And I happen to have issues that I don't want to go into detail about in a public post.
           I just moved and in my new congregation there are only 30-40 members and no one has HA. My old congregation had 350-400 members and still no one had HA. I just thought a good place to look would be an Anxiety forum.

           And in response to our beliefs on salvation. I'm listing some scripture that will hopefully help shed some light on the subject.

                        -All of 1 John 
                        -Galatians 5:4
                        - Hebrews 6:4-6
                        -Hebrews 10:26
                        - 2 Peter 2:20-22


 Once again, thank you very much for your replies :)


Hello Christina.  I'm not sure about what the Church of Christ teaches, but if it teaches that we can lose salvation or that our good works will get us saved or that our bad works will exclude us from salvation, then that teaching is in error.  I would like to end your fear hear and now through scripture, which is what you said is the only thing you go by.  Those passages you quoted at the end are not talking about a Christian losing his or her salvation.  Most are talking about a Christian losing his or her fellowship with God.  I would have to tackle those one at a time for you to explain why they mean fellowship and not salvation.  But this post I would instead like to discuss why we cannot lose our salvation.  Firstly, if salvation came by works do you think that God would have to send His Son down here to bear the cross for our sins?  We would be able to save ourselves if that's the case.  Jesus did for us what we cannot do for ourselves and that was to make us righteous, pure and holy before a holy God.  Jesus imputed to us His righteousness.  Please consider these scriptures that show that we cannot lose our salvation: (Later, I can tackle each of those scriptures that has you in fear of losing salvation.)

Philippians 3:9, "...and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ---the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith."

Ephesians 1:13b, "Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are GOd's possession--to the praise of his glory."  Please study this verse.  Having believed you were marked with a seal, who is the Holy Spirit.  Anything that God seals, man or woman, including yourself, cannot break.  Only God can break His own seals.  Nothing we can do or don't do will break this seal of the Holy Spirit that is in us.  God gives us this seal as a deposit, guaranteeing our inheritance.  God wants us to be secure, knowing that we are saved because He bought us at the cross by paying the blood of His Son as the price for our sins.  And look at the last part.  This seal is sealed until the day of redemption.  So if you happened to sin tomorrow, let's say, that won't break this seal because then this verse would no longer be accurated if it did.  You are sealed until the day of redemption.  Need more convincing?  Look at Ephesians 4:30, "And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption."  This verse said that it is possible to grieve the Holy Spirit, through sin of course, and you are still sealed for the day of redemption.  Nothing you can do can break that seal.  Once you believe, you have the Holy Spirit who is your seal of salvation for the day of redemption. 

Ephesians 2:8, "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God---not by works, so that no one can boast."  The reason why God does not allow one to get saved through their works, which is impossible anyways, but is so that no one can boast.  No one will be able to say, "I got to heaven because I did ________ and gave to ________ and stopped doing _______."  God does it.  THerefore there is nothing to boast about.  It is a gift.  All gifts are free.  THe moment someone charges you for your birthday gift that they are giving you, it is no longer a gift.  Gifts come without compensation. 

Romans 11:6, "And if by grace, then it is no longer by works; If it were, grace would no longer be grace."  Paul says that by adding any works to grace cancels the grace.  Grace is completely devoid of works. 

John 6:28-29, "Then they asked him [Jesus], "What must we do to do the works God requires?"  Jesus answered, "The work of GOd is this: to believe in the one he has sent." 

Faith in Christ is the only way to salvation.  ANd once saved, He seals us until the day of Redemption.  We must believe that Jesus paid the payment for sin for us.  He is the true sacrificial Lamb of God.  He covers all sins--past, present and future.  1 Peter 3:18, "For Christ died for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous to bring you to God."  Jesus only had to die once for us, and that covers all sins. 

Titus 3:5, "...he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.  He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Saviour. 

There are tons more scripture that shows that we cannot lose our salvation.  I don't mind covering the verses you mentioned just so you can rest your mind on those, but I would like to hear your response from what I said here first.  God bless.
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #10 on: August 20, 2010, 01:59:01 AM »
Thank you very much for your response States :)
I would like to really read and be given a chance to respond to your post but I don't have the time I would need to do so at the moment.
I have 6 children who I am getting prepared for the beginning of school(Monday) and a husband who is searching for work. I do everything on my own, including home cooked meals 3 times a day.....my husbands old fashioned, lol, and I'm just super busy. But I would really like a chance to respond to your post :) I'll try to do so sometime Saturday. And if not, I'll have to wait until Monday when the kids are all in school :)
Thank you for your patience.
I'm sorry if that was to much info, lol.
I just didn't want you to think that I was ignoring your post :)
Again, thank you :)
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Re: The church of Christ????
« Reply #11 on: August 20, 2010, 07:59:13 AM »
Thank you very much for your response States :)
I would like to really read and be given a chance to respond to your post but I don't have the time I would need to do so at the moment.
I have 6 children who I am getting prepared for the beginning of school(Monday) and a husband who is searching for work. I do everything on my own, including home cooked meals 3 times a day.....my husbands old fashioned, lol, and I'm just super busy. But I would really like a chance to respond to your post :) I'll try to do so sometime Saturday. And if not, I'll have to wait until Monday when the kids are all in school :)
Thank you for your patience.
I'm sorry if that was to much info, lol.
I just didn't want you to think that I was ignoring your post :)
Again, thank you :)


christina--I have 6 kids too.  It does keep you busy!!!!
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