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Offline chasingsun

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Help, I'm completely out of my depth!
« on: December 13, 2009, 04:26:08 PM »
I don't know what to do or where to go for help and would really like some good advice. I suffer from general anxiety disorder. I am having really bad relationship problems. I am smoking far to much trying to blank out the pain of my relationship. Generally, I am pretty much together, but as soon as my partner drinks or takes cocaine I feel like my whole world is caving in on me. He becomes aggressive and he is verbally and emotionally abusive. I know it is his problem and not mine and maybe I should leave him. I will not be able to survive financially on my own and I do love him. When he doesn't do it everything is fine between us. Our sex life is dire and now I suspect him of having an affair. I am a very attractive and very nice person. I know I make myself a victim by my inability to leave. I just wish he could see what he is doing but he is in complete denial. He keeps blaming me and saying I'm driving him to it, but I just don't know how     
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Re: Help, I'm completely out of my depth!
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2010, 09:17:28 PM »
Personally I would leave, and find alternate living arrangements.
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Psalm 34:4 'He saved me from all that I feared."......

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