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Offline Ra

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Strange fear...?
« on: June 10, 2009, 10:06:14 PM »
I'm a bit of a homophobe (no offence to anyone) and recently I'm afraid of waking up one day and being a homosexual. Is that weird? I think it's a fear of not being in control of my feelings. Because I've also had fears of liking guys I know who have girlfriends, because I know I shouldn't. I mean, I like boys, but I'm still scared. :( Opinions? I want to like boys!
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Re: Strange fear...?
« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2009, 10:17:50 PM »
That's actually a very common "Pure O" fear. Don't worry about it.
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Re: Strange fear...?
« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2009, 10:19:06 PM »
So im not turning into a lesbian?
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Re: Strange fear...?
« Reply #3 on: June 10, 2009, 11:07:35 PM »
If I may quote Andrew WK, "We only have to do what we want to do".

If you don't want to be a lesbian, then you probably won't be one. Do you LIKE the thought of being a lesbian? If not, and it's quite evident that you don't, then you're not becoming a lesbian.

Any doubts you're having are just being conjured-up by your anxiety.
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Re: Strange fear...?
« Reply #4 on: June 10, 2009, 11:37:25 PM »
thank you, I know I'll sleep better tonight :)
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